Saturday, December 22, 2012

Christmas 2012: A Day for Hope


This sermon was preached on June 5, 2009, for the West Michigan Conference Memorial Service. Reflection over the past week of sadness, anger and puzzlement for all of us, I decided to post the sermon as part of my hope that one life can make a difference. Is there someone with some influence in the guns and ammunition industry, whose life might be so transformed , that this influence can be used to change the behavior of just one gun manufacturer?   

“Rumors of Hope”
Ephesians 1:15-23

This is what I hope you will hear:

1.              The faith of a saint is like a rumor we hear; a good rumor, that spreads hope. We’re here tonight in part to tell their story. Tonight is for keeping good rumors alive, rumors about the faith of these we remember; they believed, and their belief nurtured us.
2.              But there is more: Rumors of hope begin in the practice of faith here and now. So we are also here tonight in part to describe our story, for claiming that sainthood is not merely a dead saints society; sainthood is a present-day activity. There is the possibility that someone just might start a good rumor about you because of the way you live.
3.              Finally, we’re here tonight to claim that God can begin a new rumor, any time, anywhere, in any one. There is hope for even the least likely among us; as long as there is enough pressure in our veins to make the needle jump when they wrap the cuff around your arm. Everybody has a future not yet written. Spread the rumor. Every day offers an opportunity for sainthood, and the possibilities are staggering.

Do you remember the popularity of Pope John Paul II? When he died in 2005, the city of Rome was flooded with temporary residents whose numbers rivaled the population of Boston or Dallas, or the whole state of Oregon, to either attend his funeral or to watch the service on giant video screens placed across the city. Around the world, hundreds of millions of us watched the event on our televisions.

So revered was the pontiff that fans of John Paul II wanted the Vatican to cut through the normal red tape and pronounce him a saint right away. No delays!
They say that in Rome, a mantra spread through the crowd and appeared on hand-painted signs held high in the air by worshippers: “Santo subito … santo subito.

Santo subito
; “Sainthood now!”

He’s clearly a saint, they said. So let’s make it official.
It’s not quite that simple, of course, but in response his successor Benedict quickly took the first step, by waiving the usual five year waiting period required after the death of a prospective saint, before the process of beatification can begin. Some believe John Paul II is on track for sainthood by next April – five years from his death and that would be a record.

This memorial service at Annual Conference each year resembles an All Saints’ Sunday service in the local church; that Sunday nearest November 1 each year when even we late blooming Protestants have learned to lift up those marvelous role models of faithful discipleship who have influenced us and now enjoy everlasting life with God. The standards may vary somewhat, but the idea is the same. The day is given to remembering the influence of mentors, character models who gave us a glimpse of holiness, however we may wish to define that word.
As our worship at this year’s Annual Conference takes us on a journey through the Christian year, it happens that tonight’s service, has been designated for recognizing Epiphany. November 1 doesn’t neatly fall in that season that begins on the 12th day of Christmas, but if you think about it, there is connection:  Epiphany means revelation; and surely a reason that we honor these saints tonight is because we have been witnesses to the revelation of Jesus Christ in their lives. So there; fixed that little problem.

But there is yet one other, and it has to do with who it is that falls under the definition of “saint”. The temptation may be to follow the leading of Rome and assume that saints are only those who have “slipped the surly bonds of earth…”
The New Testament doesn’t think so, and the letter to the Ephesians is one witness: saints are those living right here in our midst.

“I have heard of your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love toward all the saints” (1:15). And the saints of whom he speaks are not in heaven, but rather they are living, breathing, flesh and blood Christians. Earthy; whom Paul elsewhere called “treasures in clay jars.”
“There is a word on the street about your faith…” he might have said…” or simply, “rumor has it…” 
He is addressing this letter to people whose faith was the stuff of legend; their reputation had reached across the miles and found him, now in prison with lots of time on his hands; he found hope in them and celebrated their faith in the Lord Jesus, and how they loved one another.
Whenever Paul speaks of saints, he seems to be talking about members of the church. Saints are holy people, according to Paul, but their holiness doesn’t come from achieving some kind of moral perfection. Instead, they have a holiness that comes from being marked as God’s people. God “chose us in Christ before the foundation of the world,” insists Paul earlier in verse 4, “to be holy and blameless before him in love” (v. 4).

We are here tonight, without a doubt in my mind, to recall the lives of some spiritual giants who have lived and died in ways that showed us the way. We honor these who have inspired us with courage, perseverance and loyalty to Jesus Christ, from whom we take spiritual nourishment, and by whom we have been mentored in the ways of the Christian faith. Indeed, much of our own character, our integrity if we have any in these tempting times, is the result of their teaching, their modeling; the rumor of their faith inspired us and gave us hope.

However, we are not here merely to celebrate their life forever in heaven; while the assurance of their eternal rest is a comfort to us, it is not their new home that now inspires us. It is their life while they were here that gives us hope.

So while we honor them with sacred moments of memorial, one suspects that if they were here tonight they might encourage us to consider the New Testament understanding that all Christians are saints, here and now. They might want us to claim our own sainthood; can you picture them cheering from the stands, rooting for you and me to live holy lives in the present?  If they were here tonight I’d bet my robe and stole we would hear them say, “Talk about me if you must; but not only me. Claim the possibility of your own sainthood in this life – “santo subito” for you!

Santo subito … sainthood now. If we only devote ourselves to remembering tonight, we miss an opportunity; the real challenge today as it has always been, is for us is to live a santo subito life, among saints who are at work in the church and the world. If we fail to see this possibility for ourselves, we miss the chance to live in such a way that people will find hope in our lives. I’m talking about our families, our friends, our neighbors, co-workers, co-players, the one who dished up your dinner this evening, and would you believe the one who is planning an act of violence, who needs hope in the here and now most of all…

You have heard that the first area of focus handed to us by the 2008 General Conference, is “Developing principled Christian leadership for the church and the world.” Surely one key that will unlock the way to principled Christian leaders is a willingness to see ourselves as holy people in this moment.

So we are challenged to live a santo subito life – to be worthy of the name by which we are rightfully called – “saint”. But what does such a life look like? What kind of character does it take to start a rumor of hope?

Paul gives us some clues in Ephesians: “I have heard of your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love toward all the saints,” he writes, “and for this reason I do not cease to give thanks for you as I remember you in my prayers” (v. 15).
I’m almost embarrassed to list these, they seem so obvious. But if they are so obvious, how come there aren’t more rumors flying about?
So here they are, gleaned straight from Ephesians…

1: Faith in the Lord Jesus. Do we need to mention faith in the Lord Jesus? Okay, I will. In our Instant Messaging, texting, twittering, face-booking, blogging, web-caming, YouTubing frame of reference, Faith in the Lord Jesus asks for something more. It calls for trusting that the way of Jesus is a lifetime journey. Researcher Diana Butler Bass reports, at Phinney Ridge Lutheran Church in Seattle, newcomers are invited to take part in a program called “The WAY,” no quick membership class, but instead a full year of mentoring and Christian formation. The goal is to help people come into a living relationship with Jesus that takes over the very center of their life. Christian conversion can happen in an instant, faith may take hold of us in such a way that we are startled by its sudden arrival, or so I’m told; a flash fire of inspiration and transformation. Someone once asked Mark Twain if he believed in infant baptism. “Believe it? Yes, I do; in fact I’ve even seen it!”
Sudden faith happens; we have even seen it happen. St. Paul’s Damascus road-trip comes to mind; Microwave faith in Jesus.
But those who stay on the road like these we remember this evening, learned along the way that the Christian walk is just that, a walk; a marathon not a sprint; more like a crock-pot slow cook. Maybe the preparations we make for sainthood – which of course is what every membership class should be – should be done in the style of Phinney Ridge; take time to join the community of faith because time is what it takes to develop a living relationship where the hope is that Jesus will take over the center of our lives. Joan Henderson was a participant in The WAY when Butler Bass did her research at Phinney Ridge. She called the experience a “continuing invitation,”— a life in which “Christ calls us to follow.” That’s what saints do, plain and simple — they follow Jesus on the way to God. You’ve heard that before; and you have seen it in the lives of these saints who take their place alongside Christ in eternity. So that’s the first thing: Rumors of hope flourish when the slow cooking, patient warming-up-to-live-like-Jesus shows in us. When we see that happening in someone, we see a saint here and now.

2: Love toward all the saints. How do you love a saint?
In the first days of the church, the saints were a community of love and concern, one with visible acts of practical service. One of the first things the early Christians did was to organize a diaconate to make certain that widows and the needy got some relief (Acts 6:1-7). The fact that we are celebrating faithful lives tonight is evidence enough that they loved others. We want to honor them, because we feel indebted to them; we have been on the receiving end of their love, and we have witnessed their acts of faith.

“Contribute to the needs of the saints,” wrote Paul to the Romans;
“extend hospitality to strangers” (Romans 12:13);
And in his instructions to the young Timothy, Paul encouraged him to train himself in acts of godliness…
“Wash the feet of the saints, and help the afflicted” (1 Timothy 5:10).
Paul spearheaded an offering – maybe the first church fund-drive, when he received an offering for the faith community in Jerusalem, and described it as a special “ministry to the saints” (2 Corinthians 8:4).
In these we remember tonight, we have seen that hope comes from more than words; it is an act of practical service. It is more than warmth and affection for which we celebrate the memory of our mentors in faith. They practiced what they preached, showed love toward all the saints. There was integrity in their words because their works matched up. You can pull that off for a short while, but it takes stamina to love another saint, especially the kind who test us with their humanness. When practice confirms profession of faith, rumors of hope fly.

3: A spirit of wisdom and revelation. That’s the third rumor-starter; — a quality we can enjoy right here, right now. “I pray that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ,” Paul continues in one of his long-winded 83-word sentences… “the Father of glory, may give you a spirit of wisdom and revelation as you come to know him, so that, with the eyes of your heart enlightened, you may know what is the hope to which he has called you, what are the riches of his glorious inheritance among the saints, and what is the immeasurable greatness of his power for us who believe, according to the working of his great power” (vv. 17-19). People who are saints in this life assume that God is always ahead of them, not stuck behind them, and they continually strive to learn what God is revealing to them about their future.

A generation ago, a well-known worldly philosopher named Gracie Allen said, “Never put a period where God has placed a comma.   It reminds us that God is leading us into a future of new wisdom, new revelations, new understandings, new insights. Don’t put a period where God has placed a comma — saints take this seriously as they look for a new wisdom and revelation every day.

This spirit of wisdom and revelation ignites the hope to which God has called us, the riches of his glorious inheritance among the saints, and the immeasurable greatness of his power. We don’t have to die and go to heaven before we can have this wisdom — we can have it in this world, santo subito.
Here is the story of someone who had this spirit…

A true story

“It all started early Tuesday morning, Feb. 21, when Louise Degrafinried’s husband, Nathan, got up from bed in Macon, Tennessee, to let out the cat. “Cat,” as they called him, stood at the edge of the porch, his hair bristled up on his arched back, and he hissed. “What you see out there, Cat?” Nathan asked.
And just then a big man stepped from around the corner of the house and pointed a shotgun at Nathan.
“Lord, Honey,” Louise heard her husband shout. “Open the door, he’s got a gun.”
Before she could open the door, the man with the gun had shoved Nathan inside, pushing him and Louise against the wall.
“Don’t make me kill you!” he shouted, thrusting the gun in their faces. The couple knew immediately that the intruder was one of the escaped inmates whom they had heard about on the radio. He was Riley Arzeneaux of Memphis, who, along with four other inmates, had escaped from Fort Pillow State Prison the previous Saturday.
Louise Degrafinried, a 73 year old grandmother, stood her ground. “Young man,” she said, “I am a Christian lady. I don’t believe in no violence. Put that gun down and you sit down, right now. I don’t allow no violence here.”
The man relaxed his grip on the shotgun. He looked at her for a moment. Louise never took her eyes off him. Then he laid his gun on the couch.
“Lady,” he said quietly, “I’m so hungry. I haven’t had nothing to eat for three days.”
“Young man, you just sit down there and I’ll fix you breakfast. Nathan,” she said, “go get this young man some dry socks.”
With that, Louise went to work. She fixed ham, bacon, eggs, grits, white bread toast, milk and coffee. Then she got out her best napkins, and set her kitchen table.
As they sat down, Louise took the young man by the hand and said, “Young man, in my house, we give thanks. Let’s give thanks that you came here and are safe.” After her prayer, she asked if he wanted to pray. He didn’t say anything, so she said, “Just say, ‘Jesus wept.’ Say it!” Then they ate breakfast together.
“Why did you tell him to say, ‘Jesus wept,’ a reporter asked her later. “Because,” she said, “I figured he didn’t have no church background, so I wanted him to start off simple; something short, you know.”
Mrs. Degrafinried said, “After breakfast, we sat there and I began to pray. I held his hand and kept patting him on the leg. He trembled all over. I said, “Young man, I love you and God loves you. God loves us all, every one of us, but especially you.”
“You sound just like my grandmother,” he said. “She’s dead.” Nathan said that he saw one tear fall down the boy’s cheek.
About that time, we heard police cars coming down the lane. “They gonna kill me when they get here,” he said frightened.
“No young man, they ain’t going to hurt you. You done wrong, but God loves you.” Then me and Nathan took him by the arms, helped him up, and took him out of the kitchen toward the door. “You let me do all the talking,” I told him. The police got out of their cars. They had their big guns out. I shouted to them, “Y’all put those guns away. I don’t allow no violence here. Put them down. Go on! This young man wants to go back. Nathan,” I said, “you bring the young man on to the car.” The police, with their guns down, put handcuffs on the young man and took him back to prison.
That same afternoon, two other prisoners who had been separated from Arzeneaux entered a suburban backyard where a couple were barbecuing. The husband went into his house and came out with a gun. The escapees shot and killed him and took his wife hostage.
Was Mrs. Degrafinried frightened? “My, no,” she chuckled. “Nathan said he was scared, but not me. I knew God was with me, and God had sent the young man to me for a reason. Besides, I ain’t afraid of dying, neither. My soul is right with the Lord. I knew His hand was upon me as surely as I had my hand on that young man.”
(William Willimon, The Christian Century)


But that is not the end of the story of the life of Riley. Louise and Nathan were asked to press charges against him for holding them hostage, but they refused to do so, saying he had done them no harm, so those charges were dropped. Riley did have several years added to his sentence for the escape, but Louise began corresponding with him and visiting him in prison. On those visits she prayed with him. She asked for his photo and put it in her family album, and she began working for his release. Through her slow-cooking persistent influence, Riley eventually became a Christian.

He was freed in 1995, and in 1998, when Louise died, Riley was among those who spoke at her funeral. He told the mourners that Louise was “real Christianity.” He was invited to join family members to help carry her coffin to its burial place.

Louise’s children have continued the relationship with Riley. And Riley has stayed out of trouble since. He has a responsible job, is married and has a son. Not long ago, he was the guest speaker at Northwest Elementary School in Mason, Tennessee, where the principal of the school is, can you guess?--a daughter of Louise and Nathan Degrafinried.

This is not a rumor. Most of us will never find ourselves in circumstances like this. But Louise embodied the power Paul was talking about: not the ability to save herself and others from harm, but the ability to really see and care about another person to such an extent that the Christian testimony she gave to him became redemptive and life-giving.
Riley Arzeneaux learned that hope can begin with a rumor; he found through Louise Degrafinried that the faithful words and the practice of another can have the power to transform; and God began a new story for him.

God can begin a rumor with you, or me!

Faith in the Lord Jesus.
Love toward all the saints.
A spirit of wisdom and revelation.
The keys to a santo subito life.
May such faith, love and spirit take hold of us.


The most detailed account of the story I’ve come upon was “Bless You, Mrs. Degrafinried” by William H. Willimon, published in Christian Century, March 14, 1984. It was based on the author’s interview with Louise Degrafinried. I have found additional details in various Memphis newspaper accounts published in 1998 after the death of Louise Degrafinried as well as in a recording of a talk by Riley Arzeneaux given in 2004 at the Northwest Elementary School in Mason, Tennessee. The school’s principal is a daughter of Louise and Nathan Degrafinried.

Friday, October 19, 2012

In Mem-Miriam


Miriam Johnson VerStrate, July 2, 1946 - October 19, 1999

Meditation Delivered at Wyoming Park United Methodist Church, October 22, 1999

On behalf of Wayne and Miriam’s family, welcome to this service of celebration.  In the time we have together now, let our music and words become instruments of healing and mercy for all of us.
God is present here, offering what we cannot provide – the grace that will bring comfort in pain, hope in our sorrow, resurrection in the midst of Miriam’s death. 

We want you to know how much we appreciate the outpouring of love that we have felt over the past few days.  Her ending came so quickly, that we are still unable to completely take this in, this final curtain.  So bear with us as we try to make some sense of it by framing her death in familiar words, and the music that so enriched her life and ours.

We hope you will join us in processing to the cemetery if you are able, and then back here, in the Fellowship Hall downstairs, for Miriam’s kind of gathering – finger food and talk.  If we don’t speak to you personally today, it will not be intentional.  Just know that your presence, each one of you, is a powerful statement to us, and we give thanks for you today. 

Miriam was a kind of director in life.  At an early age she directed concerts with her cousin Lynn whenever our families would gather for holidays.  She directed her siblings inasmuch as she was able with strong-willed sisters and brother.  As a teacher she directed numerous concerts, holiday programs, and musicals.  She directed the Wyoming Park United Methodist Church Choir when she was just out of college.  She directed the Worship Ministry at the church in ’98 and ’99.  She directed “David’s Harp,” a choir formed in 1998, to add another dimension to music at the church.  She would have directed our Christmas Eve Pageant this year, “The Innkeeper’s Story,” a music that she and Debbie wrote this past summer and fall. In all these endeavors, she helped people see possibilities.  She was an artist whose vision ran way out in front of the rest of us.  Yet her leadership quality was the kind that pulled you along with her, gently if possible, forcefully when necessary, to draw out our potential.

So it will not come as any surprise to you, that she has directed us in preparing this service.  Even in her dying, we have been helped by her ability to seize the moment and work it to the fullest. 

It’s true, what Jesus said, about those who believe:  “Even though they die, yet shall they live, and whoever lives and believes in me, shall never die.”

Let Miriam’s new life come forth now, as we sing and prayer and speak of her with thanks to God for granting us the privilege of knowing her in this all-too-brief season.

We invite you to begin our worship by singing number 347, “Spirit Song.”


Words have power.  In the Bible, words do actually create.
God spoke, and with each word, came life.
You and I speak, and with each sentence, we change the moment; loving words form relationships; hurtful words break them apart.

Words are powerful.  And when words are used to deepen our understanding of religion, they have a kind of power that is immeasurable.

A fairly well-know public figure recently drew attention from the media by announcing that religion was for “weak-minded people.”
I wonder if he thought that was a new idea?
I wonder, if the boisterous governor were brave enough to sit in Miriam’s A.P. English classes, and wrestle with Shakespeare, Donne, Dickens, Hemingway, Melville, and Morrison…whose mind would find the contest way too much of a match?

Wayne, tell us, who was everyone’s choice for a partner in Trivial Pursuit? 
Whose sisters-in-law nicknamed her “Val,” affectionately short for Valedictorian, Kentwood class of ’64?
Who came each week to our Grand Sweep Bible study, with so many questions that the lesson plan got scrapped not once, but many times, because her questions brought much more life to the discussion than anything that was planned?

Miriam taught us that our minds are wonderful tools from God, and so when she studied the Bible, she took it on, as with a hammer and chisel, chipping away with a vengeance, to find the hidden truth wherever it would take her, never backing down from the hard questions, and pushing us all to the heights of our intellect, and beyond.

She saw the mysteries of the Bible as a challenge to explore, and she applied her gifted mind to searching the depths of theology.
Weak-minded?  I beg to differ.    

This was a strong woman with a strong mind, who expected just as much from us as she expected from herself, and in so doing, she helped us grow along with her.
I think she understood that the ageless questions raised by religion – questions of life and death, wholeness and brokenness, joy and pain, revenge and reconciliation, justice and love…
These were questions that, whether or not we ever discovered answers, God invites us to ask them, because in the hunt, we become more disciplined, more refined, closer to the perfection that God desires of us.

So she befriended the questions, unafraid, and her love for the intellectual stimulation of the world of ideas, whether through music or literature or faith, or any combination of them, has inspired us to live more fully.

Miriam, in fact, was the consummate educator.  And therefore I think she would be pleased to know that, though she gave us many gifts, we think of her especially today as one who gave us lessons to be learned.   

Her lessons are a gift to us.
You who are or who were her students – you have our envy.  You have been privileged to interact with a teacher who got her kicks by seeing others enjoy learning as she does, to experience the exhilaration in the birth of an idea, and the electricity generated when that idea is sharpened and shaped.


1.       She taught us to speak the truth, unafraid
Miriam could deliver a scathing tirade to a friend, or she could pour gentle soothing oil over an enemy’s anger.  Some of us would soften or harden our words to fit the occasion.  Not Miriam.  She said what needed to be said in the moment.
A lesson learned: Speak the truth to all people.  It will set you free.

2.       She taught us the value of friendship.
I would be curious to know how many people here in this room actually think they were Miriam’s best friend.  We could start a club and all wear a button that says, “I am Miriam’s best friend.”  She had a way of making you feel as though you were special. 
Her friends were so precious to her.  She understood that we need to share life, for healing, and also for honest confrontation.  She trusted that friendship was stronger than any differences of opinion.  And she forged on ahead without fear, because she knew that true disclosure of feelings was the key to deep trust between people.  And deep trust was the only basis for human relationship, as far as Miriam was concerned.
A lesson learned: Put great effort into creating friendships, for they are a treasure.


3.    She taught us that it is important to know people.
It’s important because when you really know them, you can help influence their life.  The religious word for her style of teaching is incarnational.  Because she got inside people and saw them as they are, she had no use for that tiresome debate between public education and religion.  She lived “the word made flesh.”  St. Francis of Assisi once said, “Use any means to preach the gospel.  When necessary, use words.”  That was Miriam.
Debbie asked Wayne what was one of the first things he remembered about Miriam when she came to Wyoming Park High School.  He tells this story:
Wayne had had a couple of great years as a basketball coach – won a couple of championships.  But that particular year, talent was weak, and well into the season it appeared that this would not be a memorable one.
He was bemoaning this fact one day when Miriam said, “You know, I like that Eddie Westerhoff. Why doesn’t he play very much?”
Wayne said, “I don’t know.  He doesn’t show too much hustle in practice.”
Miriam said, “Why don’t you put him into a game and see what happens?”
So, at the next opportunity, Wayne put Eddie into a game.
And do you know, Eddie was the spark plug that this team needed to turn not just that game, but the whole season, around?
Instead of the cellar, the Vikings ended the season in second place.
After it was over, two school board members came to Wayne and told him, “You’ve had better years; teams with more talent than this one.  But this year was the best coaching you have ever done.”
Miriam had gotten inside Eddie Westerhoff – knew what made him tick – and recognized what button to push so that he would rise to his potential.  She knew that some people need to see that you believe in them, before they have faith in themselves.  And so a second-string player became the catalyst for a remarkable recovery, and for his coach, an unforgettable season.
A lesson learned: If you would influence people, get to know them.

5.       She taught us to care for each other.
She was always concerned for you, for your feelings and for how you would react.  She told me recently, I’m not worried about myself.  I worried about Wayne.  She knew him better than anyone, so she knew what this would mean for him.
Wayne, you’re going to have to help us understand that.  We are with you; though you will be alone, there is no need for you to be lonely.  You may have to rise above that Dutch stubbornness, or is it stubborn Dutchness, and confess your need once in a while in case we aren’t paying attention.
A lesson learned:  Whether we know it or not, we need each other.

4.    She taught us to say good-bye.
In our family, whenever you get together, there are actually two events scheduled.  There is the occasion itself – a birthday, a holiday – and then there is the good-bye.  Good-byes are an event in themselves.  Most people come to a gathering, do their thing, and when it’s over, they leave.  Wayne often said, that when Miriam decided it was time to go, he could count on another 30 minutes before he should go get the coats.
Saying good-bye was a ritual that required time; she always had one more thing to say to you, it seemed.
And even at the end, when we actually thought she was leaving us last Friday, she kept on going.  Saturday when she was hardly speaking anymore, she said to Judy, as clearly as she ever spoke, “I have so many more important things to say.”
That’s how it was with Miriam.  She loved to talk, and she especially got going just about the time she, well, got going.
You’d be on the phone with her, and think you were about finished, and then she’d start in on a whole new subject.  And you never minded that, because it was rich, and meaningful, and you always felt as though you wouldn’t want to miss any conversation with her. 
So when she said good-bye at the end, it was a  classic, full-blown Miriam good-bye.  It took not 30 minutes, but actually about 3 days.  It was the icing on the cake.  Matter of fact, some of us think she directed this event, too.  Shelby’s birthday was Monday, Debbie’s was Wednesday.  So when did Miriam leave?  Tuesday!  So as not to tie the birthdays of loved ones to a sad occasion.
A lesson learned:  There is an art to leaving.  And Miriam was the artist.
Finally, this:  Each of you brings your own unique faith to this service today.  Whatever your faith may be, understand that it is a gift from God.  It was not earned, nor will it grow by your efforts.  It will grow because God wants it to.  And God will use your life to help faith blossom in you.  Whatever your circumstances, they are not beyond the capacity of God.  However feeble you may feel; however soft or hard you believe your heart to be;  however strong or weak  you think is the soil of your spirit; wherever you are on this journey, it is the right place, and right time, right now, for God to speak to you.  If you have trouble believing in God, then believe in the God that Miriam believed in.  That will be a pretty good start.

So good-bye, Miriam.  We’ll see you again, and whether it is later or soon, we look forward to that glad reunion.  Your nephew Nick says that you are probably saying, “Okay God, now this is how we are going to do this.” 

It wouldn’t surprise us.  

Saturday, August 25, 2012

The best book I've read in a while



Rachel Maddow's book, Drift: The Unmooring of American Military Power, is an impressive, intelligent study of the movement away from our nation's founders' intent and subsequently the Constitution's design to prevent the authority to declare war from falling to one person. (The right to declare war belongs to the Legislative Branch, for the specific reason that it allows for debate, and for the whole nation to be involved indirectly through it's elected officials). On the first page she quotes James Madison: "In war, too, the discretionary power of the Executive is extended; its influence in dealing out offices, honors, and emoluments is multiplied; and all the means of seducing the minds are added to those of subduing the force of the people." Madison said that in 1795. The book is a well-documented and alarmingly clear description of how we got where we are. If you get this book, make sure you pay attention to the "Notes" and "Acknowledgements" at the end. I suspect that wherever you stand politically, you will get an education that you did not anticipate. And I suspect you will be more inclined to vote this November. And that will be good for everyone.I hope this book will start a conversation across America that will result in a return to sanity, and the original ideas that formed our Constitution. We are quick to quote the "founding fathers" when their ideas (or our version of their ideas) support our own views. This book reminds us, with conservative as well as liberal documentation, of some basic principles of democracy. Maddow points us toward a return to them, and we would do well to listen to her.
8/25/12